do you agree? replied by Darkness_hacker99 @ Thu, 24 Jul 2008 02:10:25 +0800

Darkness_hacker99 — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 02:10:25 +0800

No. It's not a waste of time.

I feel that probably it just now the right time only. When the times come, she will like you de..

For your case now... Try not to bring up sensitive topic such as Relationship.. Hold on to your love for her.... I believe one day she will appreciated, and start to have liking for you. Oh ya, it also depend on how long you can wait.

I'm just into my 2nd year, going 3rd soon.

Wait, I'll wait. Hold on, I'll hold on; Till my last breath, yet to be proven.

do you agree? replied by 00king00 @ Sat, 19 Jul 2008 23:37:22 +0800

00king00 — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 23:37:22 +0800

i tink u shld giv it some time and see how it goes, don't jump to conclusions too quickly

do you agree? replied by RachelSniper @ Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:47:02 +0800

RachelSniper — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:47:02 +0800

So... This friendship is nothing to you even though she rejected you but she is still trying to maintain platonic relationship with you?

There might be a chance for this relationship to take up a higher rung of the ladder, but your impatience is not helping you.

Maybe she is taking this opportunity to check you out?

Not everyone jumps into river of love so readily.

That is why some of us fail when it comes to judge people and their actions impulsively.

Sorry if I sounded harsh. Just not sure why people demand a quick result/ answer from certain things which take times to build.

Cheers.

do you agree? replied by domonkassyu @ Mon, 14 Jul 2008 14:54:10 +0800

domonkassyu — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 14:54:10 +0800

Originally posted by f.a.t.e.d:

that after rejection, friendship with the person is a waste of time?

since that person wasnt really part of your life before that to begin with.

since u already know you stand no chance, why continue to date her out right? and wouldnt she feel awkward too? and if she starts to dao you?

worst thing is, shes the one who says she wants to treasure the friendship.

shld i just move on from this "friendship"? sometimes i think she's still giving me a second chance since i didnt officially ask her, she just randomly told me that she only thinks of me as a friend and nothing more. but after that i did tell her i liked her la.. but even so..

help? should i just continue our friendship but not try to date her anymore?

obviously u not very good in sales..gt such thing as this time dun buy next time will buy..even die die dun buy den ask for referrals..

do you agree? replied by Fantagf @ Mon, 14 Jul 2008 05:29:37 +0800

Fantagf — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 05:29:37 +0800

Originally posted by f.a.t.e.d:

that after rejection, friendship with the person is a waste of time?

since that person wasnt really part of your life before that to begin with.

since u already know you stand no chance, why continue to date her out right? and wouldnt she feel awkward too? and if she starts to dao you?

worst thing is, shes the one who says she wants to treasure the friendship.

shld i just move on from this "friendship"? sometimes i think she's still giving me a second chance since i didnt officially ask her, she just randomly told me that she only thinks of me as a friend and nothing more. but after that i did tell her i liked her la.. but even so..

help? should i just continue our friendship but not try to date her anymore?

You have to be honest what you want from her.

do you agree? replied by Lorry` @ Sat, 12 Jul 2008 00:42:19 +0800

Lorry` — Sat, 12 Jul 2008 00:42:19 +0800

why is it a waste of time?

still can be friends.... it's how you look at things

knew that you stand no chance, yes.. you can just date her out.. as a Friend. But you must put your feelings aside, can you do it?

Hard work dont really pay off.. especially in relationships. Sometimes such sayin is used to console people only

do you agree? replied by vvclub @ Sat, 12 Jul 2008 00:31:50 +0800

vvclub — Sat, 12 Jul 2008 00:31:50 +0800

don't waste time, move on ... your time is better spent hunting for the next better gf

do you agree? replied by youyayu @ Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:54:18 +0800

youyayu — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:54:18 +0800

you nv try u nv know

do you agree? replied by angel7030 @ Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:40:39 +0800

angel7030 — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:40:39 +0800

Originally posted by f.a.t.e.d:

hmm... dont give up?

if she still doesnt mind going out 1on1 with me? does this mean i still have a chance?

does hardwork really pay off?

She maybe making of u, so becareful ya, gal like her and me like to use boys to our advantage. Dun fall for the beauti, the heart is more important.

do you agree? replied by yamizi @ Fri, 11 Jul 2008 13:21:09 +0800

yamizi — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 13:21:09 +0800

Originally posted by f.a.t.e.d:

hmm... dont give up?

if she still doesnt mind going out 1on1 with me? does this mean i still have a chance?

does hardwork really pay off?

She's not your gf, so don't commit yourself fully to her lah.

I have this female friend, who keeps a lot of her suitors 'as her friend'. And she goes out with them 1-on-1 basis also de. Top sales, professionals and rich men's sons, most of them drives their own car.

Don't commit and attach yourself emotionally unnecessarily.

Focus on your career, when career establish, girls come naturally de, law of this society.

do you agree? replied by laURanaBabe @ Fri, 11 Jul 2008 13:11:16 +0800

laURanaBabe — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 13:11:16 +0800

don't contact for a period of time...after that when you really feel ok liaw..can come back as friend...

like that doesn't mean you dont treasure the relationship..just some time off..

do you agree? replied by f.a.t.e.d @ Thu, 10 Jul 2008 23:34:23 +0800

f.a.t.e.d — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 23:34:23 +0800

hmm... dont give up?

if she still doesnt mind going out 1on1 with me? does this mean i still have a chance?

does hardwork really pay off?

do you agree? replied by dumbdumb! @ Thu, 10 Jul 2008 20:06:10 +0800

dumbdumb! — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 20:06:10 +0800

hmm. not really. the first girl who rejected me, we became pretty good friends for awhile, i led her to Christ a few years ago. then we just grew apart lor.

tts life. =)

but dun look down on the importance of friendship ya? you'll never know when you need their help.

do you agree? replied by angel7030 @ Thu, 10 Jul 2008 19:30:01 +0800

angel7030 — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 19:30:01 +0800

Originally posted by xKuro:

well, not all girls are the same. thats the cruel fact, everyone needs to accept.

why is it a cruel fact that all girls are not same, that is natural, not to be cruel about it, you tell me, is there any guys having the same prick in size and shape??? if yes, then that would be a cruel fact indeed.

do you agree? replied by xKuro @ Thu, 10 Jul 2008 05:29:51 +0800

xKuro — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 05:29:51 +0800

well, not all girls are the same. thats the cruel fact, everyone needs to accept.

do you agree? replied by alwaysdisturbed @ Tue, 08 Jul 2008 11:12:16 +0800

alwaysdisturbed — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 11:12:16 +0800

Originally posted by Subaru WRX:

yup. sonner or later the girl will be touched.

touched by another person?

do you agree? replied by Subaru WRX @ Tue, 08 Jul 2008 10:11:01 +0800

Subaru WRX — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 10:11:01 +0800

yup. sonner or later the girl will be touched.

do you agree? replied by lonestar86 @ Tue, 08 Jul 2008 10:07:26 +0800

lonestar86 — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 10:07:26 +0800

strongly disagree..

i believe one's hard work will pay off someday..

do you agree? replied by ispyyy @ Tue, 08 Jul 2008 08:58:24 +0800

ispyyy — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 08:58:24 +0800

It depends on u but does not depend on how should it be...

If u feel tat u rather dont be friends, then, dont be friends...

as simple as tat...

do you agree? replied by xKuro @ Tue, 08 Jul 2008 03:13:00 +0800

xKuro — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 03:13:00 +0800

It would be best if you continue to be a friend rather than strangers.

I promise you, both of you would not like to pretend like complete strangers when you see each other down the road.

You should really get to know her better by going out together with her AND her friends. Actually its a good thing that she wants to treasure the friendship. If i were you, i would not bring up any relationship issues with her for the time being.

In all, just continue being her friends but please try not to pin too high hopes on her.

do you agree? replied by MrSean @ Tue, 08 Jul 2008 02:13:28 +0800

MrSean — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 02:13:28 +0800

Originally posted by f.a.t.e.d:

that after rejection, friendship with the person is a waste of time?

since that person wasnt really part of your life before that to begin with.

since u already know you stand no chance, why continue to date her out right? and wouldnt she feel awkward too? and if she starts to dao you?

worst thing is, shes the one who says she wants to treasure the friendship.

shld i just move on from this "friendship"? sometimes i think she's still giving me a second chance since i didnt officially ask her, she just randomly told me that she only thinks of me as a friend and nothing more. but after that i did tell her i liked her la.. but even so..

help? should i just continue our friendship but not try to date her anymore?

The fact that the person wasn't really part of your life to begin with shows that you deserve to be rejected.

do you agree? replied by angel7030 @ Sun, 06 Jul 2008 12:00:16 +0800

angel7030 — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 12:00:16 +0800

Originally posted by f.a.t.e.d:

i dunno.. theres still part of me that cant let go.. i dont know why..

thanks for your advice though.. (:

that part is materialism, it just an empty emotion, reject it and delete it out of your rubbish bin. Time will make u stronger and forget about it, till u forget and throw out this emotion, u may be laughing at yourself and asking, why last time i so siao siao this gal ar??

do you agree? replied by xavier1979 @ Sun, 06 Jul 2008 10:13:03 +0800

xavier1979 — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 10:13:03 +0800

I got rejected by several girls before, but I'm still good friends with them wor.

do you agree? replied by f.a.t.e.d @ Sat, 05 Jul 2008 18:37:04 +0800

f.a.t.e.d — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 18:37:04 +0800

i dunno.. theres still part of me that cant let go.. i dont know why..

thanks for your advice though.. (:

do you agree? replied by angel7030 @ Sat, 05 Jul 2008 15:39:01 +0800

angel7030 — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 15:39:01 +0800

Can still be friend mah, good for networking in the future when u need help. Take it as a guy ya.

Let put it this way, you are fated to find a prettier and capable gal in near future, so now this gal, out of fate have to reject you. And luckily she rejected you now rather than go deep into a gf and bf relationship than reject you, that will hurt more ya.

Cheers up ok, I was rejected and scolded, sometime F'ed left right centre rear back top down, and i still take it on the stride, and imagine a gal can take it, u cannot meh?

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